My father-in-law, Martin Kulinski, lost his battle with kidney cancer on October 18, 2008. Today would have been his 57th birthday, and I just wanted to take a moment to reflect on what an amazing person he was. I met Marty 13 years ago when I started dating Mark, I was only sixteen at the time. Marty and Helen were so amazing and I instantly felt like a part of the family. I don’t think I ever saw Marty without a huge smile on his face…..he was so happy and full of life. He was also the smartest person I have ever met….SERIOUSLY! He was a nuclear engineer on a submarine during the Vietnam War, and later in his life he was a Director of a national IT company. If I had a question I would always ask Marty first, he honestly knew something about everything.
Family was the most important thing in Marty’s life. He loved his wife more than anything, and they had the most amazing relationship! Even after 35 years of marriage they still held hands in public and loved spending all of their time together. Marty also loved spending time with his sons, especially if it involved playing golf with them. He was a wonderful grandfather, and my children adored him. Everybody that knew Marty loved him and looked up to him.
One of things that I miss the most is not being able to share my photography with him. He truly was one of my biggest supporters. When I was studying photography at The Art Institute of Colorado I would tell him about all of my assignments, and I always felt like he was so proud of me. I had so much respect for him and I could not have asked for a better father-in-law.
I have been married to Mark for eight years, but for some reason I never called Marty - DAD. I always wanted to and now I regret that I didn’t find the courage to.
Even though he is not here with us today to celebrate his birthday, I know he is in a better place.
Happy Birthday Dad!
We love you, we miss you, and you will be in our hearts forever!

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